Success Coach International

2012-01-31T06:22:00.000+02:00

Values - The Basis of Personality

    Working within a coaching context, we often refer to values as being the key components of our neurology which assist in the shaping of our personality. A great deal of importance is often attributed to personal values and rightly so, as values govern all of the behaviour we produce. Values are often referred to and quoted as the reasons for our actions, the justification for our produced behaviour. Do we really understand what values are and how we can employ them as the foundation of change?

    Values are what we move towards and away from. We are willing to spend time and resources on our values, to achieve them and to maintain them. They provide that very special kinaesthetic movement towards motivation to act and then serve as judge and jury after the fact. They operate largely at the unconscious level and are the most powerful drivers of our true purpose as individuals.

    Our core values form the basis of our personality. They are created at the unconscious level and their installation may be as simple as watching the interactions of our parents before we reached the age of seven years old, our imprint period and later in life by the unconscious modelling of our environmental interactions. Core values are the most pervasive and they have the greatest impact on us because they exist in a realm outside of our conscious awareness.

    Values are powerful drivers of our personality and behaviour and are therefore quite clearly key contributors to the success of the coaching process and the longevity of change.
    The elicitation of core values is a simple and quite often lengthy process. Values are most usefully elicited in a highly contextualised manner to avoid hierarchies of values, which only exist in certain elements of the whole which is life, becoming cross contextualised and therefore conflicted. It is crucial to get past the more conscious, surface values in order to successfully elicit the core values. If the coach only elicits ten values and then stops, the most powerful values which reside at the unconscious level will remain unnoticed. It takes time to discover the core values and they often reside within motivation strategies and over threshold boundaries.

    Visibility of the values hierarchy is often a moment of realisation for the coachee. Previously unexplained sources of incongruence, internal conflict, misalignment and behaviour instantly become very clear. A values hierarchy which is in conflict with the values system of the current environment feels very uncomfortable with no obvious reason as to why the discomfort exists. It is fortunate that our values hierarchy, even at the core level, can be modified if it would better suit the environment we choose to be in.

    As a coach, assisting a client to change their values carries with it a degree of responsibility and the ecology of the change must be carefully and extensively explored with the coachee. With both parties having total understanding of the consequences of change, then values can be changed at the unconscious level by considering how the client represents each value and then carefully modifying the building blocks which encode each representation. The simplicity and speed of this change process means that we can completely alter a behaviour or sense of conflict in a particular context very easily with incredible outcomes.

    Complementing our core values are a set of values which constantly redefine themselves and evolve over time. Dr. Claire Graves postulated that there are seven levels of values which are most significant in the modern world. Others have since postulated a further seven levels, however, the majority of people in the world today are functioning within the first seven.

    The Graves system of development states that our values are in constant flux in response to the changing conditions of our environment. Values levels shape the lens through which we view the world and are defined by our ability to adapt to diverse conditions. As environmental conditions evolve, they become more complex and in turn create the development of more complex thinking, our values level. We all have internal access to all of the values levels and we will have one which is predominant right now. During the process we consider the client’s current values level and assist them to awaken the thinking of the next level. It is a challenge to understand the client's values system which drive the present behaviour and their current level of values development.

    The consideration of values is essential to any well-formed coaching relationship and also within any business or organisation. An organisation with values which are congruently aligned across the whole workforce and management hierarchy is an organisation capable of producing excellence with happy, contented and motivated people.

The value of values is undeniable, they are the differences which make a difference.

For an assessment send us an email to arrange a teleconference appointment. The process and the relationship is strictly confidential. The client might use a nick name if he/she requires absolute anonymity!

Επομενη βιβλιο-παρουσίαση

2011-03-31T11:16:00.002+03:00

“Ποιος Πήρε το Τυρί Μου”

του Spencer Johnson

Ένας εκπληκτικός τρόπος για να αντιμετωπίσετε την αλλαγή στην εργασία σας και στη ζωή σας.

“Όλοι γνωρίζουμε ότι η αλλαγή είναι κομμάτι της επαγγελματικής μας δραστηριότητας, αλλά πολύ λίγοι προσδοκούμε να αποδεχόμαστε την αλλαγή ως πραγματικότητα στην προσωπική ζωή μας. Το ποιος πήρε το τυρί μου είναι ένας απλός, κατανοητός χάρτης που μπορούμε όλοι να χρησιμοποιήσουμε καθώς βρισκόμαστε αντιμέτωποι με τις ιδιαίτερες περιστάσεις της δικής μας αλλαγής”

Νικος Πασχάλη

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Μαθήματα από το βιβλίο της Shakti Gawain, Τηλεπαρουσίαση Νίκου Πασχάλη Τρίτη 15/3/2011, ώρα 9.00-10.00μμ

2011-03-13T15:13:00.006+02:00

Επομενο σεμιναριο Τριτη 29/3/2011, 8.00-9.00μμ

“Κάνε την Φαντασία σου Πραγματικότητα”

(Δημιουργικός Οραματισμός)

Αυτά που γράφει στο βιβλίο της, έχουν δώσει στην Shakti βάθος και ευρύτητα στις εμπειρίες και την απόλαυση της ζωής της. Το βιβλίο της γράφτηκε για να αποτελέσει μια εισαγωγή για την μάθηση και την χρήση του δημιουργικού οραματισμού

Στη τηλεδιάλεξη - παρουσίαση θα ασχοληθούμε με πρακτικές χρήσιμες ιδέες και τεχνικές που αναφέρει η Shakti στο βιβλίο της.

Κάθε στιγμή της ζωής σου είναι απέραντα δημιουργική, αλλά και το σύμπαν είναι απέραντα γενναιόδωρο Αρκεί απλώς να εκφράσεις μια ξεκάθαρη επιθυμία κι εκείνο που λαχταρά η καρδιά σου θα εκπληρωθεί.

Το μόνο που χρειάζεσαι είναι υπολογιστή, ακουστικά και πρόσβαση στο Ίντερνετ!
Συμπλήρωσε την παρακάτω αίτηση συμμετοχής και κανε την πληρωμή €10, στο Paypal Online, για να λάβεις τον σύνδεσμο στην εικονική τάξη και τις οδηγίες πως να ενωθείς.

Εύχομαι αυτή η εμπειρία να είναι ευεργετική για σας και να σας βοηθήσει να φέρετε στην ζωή σας περισσότερη χαρά, ικανοποίηση και ομορφιά.
Εύχομαι να τροφοδοτήσει το φως που λάμπει μέσα σας, θα σας δω στην ζωντανή εικονική τάξη.

Νίκος Πασχάλη, 00357-22454547

Μπορεις να παραγγείλεις και το βιβλιο της Shakti παρακάτω (older post)

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Μπορεις να παραγγειλεις το βιβλιο εδω

2011-03-11T07:11:00.000+02:00

For a personal coaching session with Nicos Paschali

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Get a free telephone consultation discussing the wanted outcome of your concern!
Call +35722454547
or skype :nickoffice2
email: nicospas@gmail.com
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2010-03-03T08:16:00.000+02:00

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Πέτυχε την Κορυφαία Απόδοη Τώρα ΑΙΤΗΣΗ

2009-09-24T17:28:00.000+03:00

συμπληρωσε την αιτηση, να παίρνεις πληροφορίες!

Πετυχε την Κορυφαια Αποδοση Τωρα

2009-09-24T17:11:00.000+03:00

Ανακάλυψε και Απόλαυσε την χαρά της ποιοτικής ζωής

Ένα τηλε-σεμινάριο, σε 7 μαθήματα , ένα κάθε εβδομάδα με υποστιρηξη μηνυμάτων, στο email, βασισμένο στη δουλειά του Anthony Robbins και άλλων μεγάλων δασκάλων. Οι παρουσιάσεις στο Ιντερνετ θα μαγνητοσκοπούνται και θα είναι στην διάθεση των συμμετεχόντων καθ' όλη την διαρκεια του προγράμματος, να το ακούσουν όσες φορές χρειάζεται για να το ενσωματώσουν στην συμπεριφορά τους.

Τα εργαλεία, στρατηγικές και πόροι που θα αποκτήσεις και να βάλεις σε εφαρμογή με αυτό το εκπαιδευτικό πρόγραμμα, θα σε βοηθήσει να ενδυναμώσεις τον εαυτόν σου και όχι μόνο θα ανακαλύψεις τι είναι αυτό που θέλεις στην ζωή, αλλά και να το επιτύχεις, και να το βιώσεις ευχάριστα!

Μάθημα 1—Το κλειδί της προσωπικής Δύναμης

Οι αποφάσεις και η ικανότητα να πράττεις με συνέπεια αλλάζει την ζωή σου

Μάθημα 2---Πόνος και ευχαρίστηση

Ότι κάνεις στην ζωή εξαρτάται από δύο πράγματα, είτε να αποφύγεις τον πόνο η να επιθυμείς την ευχαρίστηση. Και τα δύο είναι ρυθμιστικές δυνάμεις στην ζωή μας

Μάθημα 3—Η δύναμη της νεύρο-σύνδεσης

Οτιδήποτε πόνο η ευχαρίστηση συνδέουμε μια κατάσταση, το νευρικό μας σύστημα καθορίζει την συμπεριφορά μας

Μάθημα 4—Τα 3 βήματα για αλλαγή που αντέχει τον χρόνο

Για να αλλάξεις την ζωή σου χρειάζεται να αλλάξεις τις νεύρο-συνδέσεις

Μάθημα 5—Το εργαστήρι της στοχοθέτησης

Οι στόχοι σου προσφέρουν την ικανότητα να δημιουργείς το μέλλον σου εκ των προτέρων

Μάθημα 6—Η καθοδηγητική δύναμη των βασικών αναγκών του ανθρώπου

Όλοι οι άνθρωποι χουν διαφορετικές επιθυμίες και όμως όλοι καθοδηγούμαστε από τις ίδιες βασικές ανάγκες

Μάθημα 7—Ο γρήγορος και εύκολος τρόπος προγραμματισμού

Ζούμε σε ένα κόσμο που επιβάλλονται περισσότερες αξιώσεις παρά ποτέ στη ιστορία της ανθρωπότητας. Προσπαθούμε να ικανοποιήσουμε πολλούς ρόλους ταυτόχρονα και χρειάζεται ένα απλό σκοπό-κεντρικό σύστημα προγραμματισμού βασισμένο στο αποτέλεσμα

One On One from the Desk of your Office or Home

2009-07-16T08:49:00.000+03:00

Yes now, you can conference with me live using the internet and your computer.
You will be learning beyond threshold, in real time and personalised face to face if you have a web camera. If not you will only see me.

Coaching lessons help individuals to form the direction of an outcome, create clear thinking , emotional balance and flexible behaviour!

Find out more by calling my office 0035722454547, Nicos Paschali or email me nicos@paschalisconsulting.com

Good Intentions and the 5 Freedoms Model of change

2009-07-14T15:46:00.000+03:00

The world is full of good intentions and equally well populated with the evidence that these intentions do not always come to fruition.
We are speaking specifically of the process and what people intend in their communication and what the outcome of that communication actually is. Our approach and method is to create new experiences instead of working to eliminate the old ones.

The 5 Freedoms Method of change

The freedom to see and hear what is NOW instead of what should be, could be, was or will be
the freedom to feel what is felt NOW instead of what should be, could be, was, or will be
the freedom to say what is NOW instead of what should be, could be, was, or will be
the freedom to reach out for what you want instead of what you should want, not having to wait for someone to offer it to you
the freedom to take risks in your own behalf instead of only waiting for a change in the situation to make it possible for you to have what you want for yourself

Αιτηση Δωρεαν Συνδρομης

2009-07-08T16:47:00.000+03:00

Quick and Lasting Life Change

2009-07-05T07:23:00.000+03:00

Helping solving problems , no matter how overwhelming they may seem and finding solutions by unleashing your true potential!

Learn how to change Quickly!

Learn how to:
Own your Mind
Build new Beliefs
Get over Bad Suggestions
Get over Fears and Phobias
Get over Bad Memories
Get over Grief
Get over Bad Relationships
Get over Bad Decisions

Get through Habits and Compulsions
Get through Physical Recovery
Get through Resignation
Get through Big Events
Get through Tests, Exams, Interviews
Get through Obligations

Getting to Fun
Getting to Love
Getting to Meet People
Getting to Important Duties
Getting to Exercise
Getting to Make More Money
Getting to Make Big Decisions

Who can Benefit from the Coach Program

2009-07-04T06:30:00.000+03:00

Those searching for peak experience, those who love to learn ,grow, and change.

Those they love to move to the next level of development.

And we help them to self-actualize change in a consistent and congruent way!

We help the student to produce the best performance that he or she can create, we work with form and not the content!

Form is the process, structure and the format of the story.

These people are already successful in various areas and who simply want more.

We help them to move to greater level of self management, self awareness and effectiveness.

Coaching for us is "Accelerated Training" than therapy, because it is performance and results oriented.

We help them to facilitate the next stage of development, becoming excellent able to produce superior performance.

Our coaching focuses the student on how to think better, feel better, attain higher level of health, well-being, focus, alertness and relaxation

We are generating new levels of competence, success and well-being

Get the bodies and the brain functioning at their best within all the contexts of factors that affect success

How to keep your brain vibrant and active

2009-06-30T09:26:00.000+03:00

Clear Thinking and Decision Making
Emotional Balance
Flexible Behaviour
Achieving Goals and Outcomes
Changing Beliefs
Creative Problem Solving

We can help help you to overcome and resolve following issues.

If you cannot sleep at nights
If over eating is becoming a frustrating experience
If you cannot control your emotions
If you break into an outrage
If you fear and you are having stressful thoughts
If you are avoiding speaking in front of a group of people
If you cannot focus on your daily targets and goals
If you are shy with men or women
If you fail to communicate with precision
If you lack self confidence

You are here...to find your direction

2009-06-17T17:08:00.000+03:00

I have created this social blog to really help you, one-on-one, to find out what you want and how to succeed in reaching your personal and professional goals and outcomes!
Follow up this blog. We can do the personal lesson face to face, or on the web via video conferencing